I must be a true BYOTCH...my job is making me this way I swear. Normally I am laid back and very personable. Not that after reading my blogs anyone would believe it, but it is the truth.
I am more than ready to move on. My goal: to move south, find an excellent job and be happy...then I will quit this blog....which I have to say has been quite fun. I guess its better than taking it out on everyone around me tho my honey hears alot of it too, but thats more so for asking opinions and thoughts on the situation.
Today, December 26, 2007 The day after Christmas....of course Judy wasn't in...WHEN IS SHE?? I keep having to do her work...hmmmm, things that make ya go hmmmmm...lol Anyways, my boss was in for 1/2 sec to let me know she was going home. No sweat off my back and its her office, she can do what she wants. But I am so tired of being the only one doing anything around that damn office. I came home late for lunch, brought 1/2 my stuff home from the office and never went back. It was towards the end of the day anyways, but shit....its not fair the one person (ME) busting their ass doesn't get rewarded for it and Judy who does nothing gets no reprecussions for her actions of being late everyday and not coming in at all. I don't care if she wrote it down, screamed it out loud or whatever--she does whatever she wants and I am SICK of it!!!
I have been looking for jobs and actually landed a good paying one, but I felt I had loyality to my boss and I should have laid down the law or left for that other job right then...instead I let it slip away!! I could kick myself everyday, I mean everyday!!! Stupid, stupid...I guess as long as I realize it and learn a lesson (which I did, a huge one).....life goes on.
Wednesday, December 26, 2007
Thursday, December 13, 2007
How Can I Handle One More Day of Hell....
Ok I thought Judy and I were on a good path, on the same team, ya know. But lately.....
I just can't handle doing both of our jobs, being paid for just mine and working more hours and getting screwed on my time. I got shit to do too. Judy brings to my attention shes only missed 6 times in the last 3 weeks--HELLO most places would have fired your ass. I hate when people assume they should have their asses kissed because someone did it all their lives. That is why my kids must go to school everyday (unless verified fever or puke) because it teaches them responsibility and accountability. Judy has neither.
And my boss...she has been treating me like I am stupid. We will see how stupid once I get into law school. What a facist fucking pig. That is why I hate women and have only 1 woman friend (shes my BFF and gets away with more than the usual woman...lol) No really I can handle my BFF, but everyone else can take their PMS and shove it. I don't treat people like that but they also act jeolous or standoff"ish"....I can't help it I am beautiful....get the hell over it. :)
I have to find another job before I kill myself. LOL No I don't think its quite that bad but just so the emphasis on how much I hate it...
I wish I could find somewhere that people won't judge me, be jeolous, envious and just get along and have fun doing the work we were meant to do while on this earth. And maybe this is not it for me, because its not fun most days and mostly painful to my soul. I guess that is why I chose to go to school. I wanted to stay in my field (law) but around here is slim pickins in that dept. so I will have to sacrifice....its time!!! Actually, probably way past time to move on.
I just can't handle doing both of our jobs, being paid for just mine and working more hours and getting screwed on my time. I got shit to do too. Judy brings to my attention shes only missed 6 times in the last 3 weeks--HELLO most places would have fired your ass. I hate when people assume they should have their asses kissed because someone did it all their lives. That is why my kids must go to school everyday (unless verified fever or puke) because it teaches them responsibility and accountability. Judy has neither.
And my boss...she has been treating me like I am stupid. We will see how stupid once I get into law school. What a facist fucking pig. That is why I hate women and have only 1 woman friend (shes my BFF and gets away with more than the usual woman...lol) No really I can handle my BFF, but everyone else can take their PMS and shove it. I don't treat people like that but they also act jeolous or standoff"ish"....I can't help it I am beautiful....get the hell over it. :)
I have to find another job before I kill myself. LOL No I don't think its quite that bad but just so the emphasis on how much I hate it...
I wish I could find somewhere that people won't judge me, be jeolous, envious and just get along and have fun doing the work we were meant to do while on this earth. And maybe this is not it for me, because its not fun most days and mostly painful to my soul. I guess that is why I chose to go to school. I wanted to stay in my field (law) but around here is slim pickins in that dept. so I will have to sacrifice....its time!!! Actually, probably way past time to move on.
Wednesday, May 9, 2007
Judy is truely PSYCHO
Ok Judy..my co-worker, OMG as if it couldn't get any worse. Her and hubby are splitting up and there is no judgment on my part for that because the world knows I have done it twice... But he is psycho and therefore she is psycho. She thinks he wants to kill her...ok, well.....think about it. j/k She is being stubborn and won't leave the house....shit girl then just leave even if its only temporarily. I think most of her deal is for attention. She's on the phone all day at WORK to her family, his family and him....so then I get asked to do her work. Now that is BS, besides the drama! Today I got reamed for not answering the phones though the hubby had called 20 times in a row! I had that drama, and not even that much. I AM NOT GETTING INVOLVED! But how dare my boss tear my ass off about it. Oh and one more LEGITIMATE BYOTCH before I go...last week I was sick..sinus infection and ear infection (1 1/2 days) and still sick when I came back. I asked if I could make up my time, its always been ok but the boss through a bomb shell at me on Friday at 4pm and told me I couldn't and gave me my check. I sucked it up and said fine, whatever...she makes the rules what can I do? Well this week Judy has been late everyday and left early everyday besides taking 2 complete days off Thurs and Fri.....Judy asked my hours yesterday I had overtime, which my cheap ass boss won't pay (so I will take it as time off...whatever) but when I checked to see if Judy had done her check.....nope. I swear if I find out my boss let her make time up I will be furious and QUIT on the spot!! I hate this job and can't wait to find another one!!
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Ok I had to restart my BLOG because I couldn't retrive the information...its been awhile, but I am back to bitching again....and really need it for therapy reasons...LOL
2 days out...peace at last!
Legal Eagle BitchOk Judy is off for two days...YAHOO! Maybe I will actually get some work done and she won't be there to tell me her many stories. I just know shes been screwing our boss on her hrs because there is no way in hell that shes been able to make so much time up. I hope our boss is getting fed up, but I if so I can't see it! Today Judy sat down at lunch and told our boss a story about her being rude to another assistant in opposing counsel's office because she told them that the Court couldn't call back and to get the assistant on the phone because they were trying to schedule a hearing. THis is true, a deputy clerk was on the line in conference while she was doing this. And just to clarify, the assistant in the opposing counsel's office is handicapped (got the sticker and all) from a car accident. (I had went to school with this other assistant so I know, and dealing with her is a pain because on your end all the filings have to be taken care of, but she is sweet and their office is only a block from the Courthouse so its hardly farther than going there. By the way Judy rarely runs anywhere, she always complains its too hot or she wants to be right up the bosses ass...LOL I have to say I love being a paralegal and would still consider law school if I could get my loans paid off first...that'll be the day. Anyways I still take my job just as serious because its my boss who is going to pay for my mistakes. I worry about missing deadlines, I worry about getting things done right the first time, I do my best and somedays I know I can do better and am always trying to improve. Shes just there because right now she can do what she wants but little does she know that peaking around the corner waiting to pounce is ME!
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Saturday, May 27, 2006
Helpless
Legal Eagle BitchCould it get more pathetic? My job that is... Friday Judy had a case in which a brief need filed and it was due on Friday (my boss is a procrastinator, but I don't blame her for that because shes got hundreds of open cases....and is very active in the community on boards and other things) Who do I blame? What a loaded fucking question! JUDY See the case in which the brief was due was in another town about 40 mins away. Judy didn't think she could find it...OMG! Hello. I looked up the directions for her because she couldn't do it. From our office it was easy as driving the whole way on a St. Rt. and making one turn. I volunteered (guess that makes it hard to complain about it) but I didn't do it for her but for my boss. I want her to succeed and it takes us (well really ME) to do that too. Plus it got me out of the office for about 3 hrs....took my lunch while I was out too, plus picked up some docs from the Ct. I needed for a hearing on a case of mine scheduled for Tuesday. I am sick of picking up her slack though. My husband keeps telling me to talk to my boss, but its difficult in a small office-theres only us 3... Judy was hired in about 6 mons or so before me and does alot of the extra crap that a secretary should and a paralegal shouldn't....payroll (though I could because I worked for a major industrial manufacturer doing payroll and all the child support deductions. I just don't think at this point I should have to do that and all the legal research and writing that Judy can't do.Oh and that reminds me...the other day Judy asked me if she would be considered a legal assistant....I laughed (loudly) and then added no, I went to school for 4 years (she has no college). Balls!http://www.imgdump.net/images2/8a73d0d8.gif
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Wednesday, May 17, 2006
While Judy's Away the Bitch will PLAY!
Legal Eagle BitchWhats new every other day Judy needs to get out of work early or whatever....but when I strained my back over the weekend she was a BITCH because I missed one day. She bitched to me all day about it, and I wanted to Shoot myself...literally!I can't even complain when she is gone, and I really like it that way. What I don't like is that she gets pissy with me about missing work and then does it all the time. I don't get that way with her, because that way I don't have to listen to her tell everyone who walks through the FUCKING door her BORING life stories. Poor people. Plus I seem to get soooo much more done when she is not blabbing and in my way. God its so wrong, most days I would like to kick her ass and shoot myself. But she can be nice too...bi-polar I would guess, Def MENTAL!I gotta find another job! I seriously love my boss....she's a very smart attorney and appreciates my knowledge and experience in the legal field. Shes taught me alot and theres things to learn each day with as much as law changes. I hate to leave and I am so comfortable where I am at....but maybe that means I need to go. I like change and meeting new people, but every office is different too, so it would be strange at first. I have interviewed with other attys that can't believe I have so much freedom....I know what to do and do it without asking every little thing of my boss. I don't need much supervision and the little I do need its because I am by law under her supervision and can't just practice unauthorized law, though I am sure I could do it easily. I soooo need to pay off my student loans and go back to law school. You only live once, so my motto is GO FOR IT, take life all the way!
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Thursday, May 04, 2006
Just Shoot Me...please
Legal Eagle BitchThe Stalker Divorce client was in again yesterday...pretty much so were all the other psychos!She came into sign her divorce papers. Shes wondering when she will get served so she can get the dog out of the house. While she was looking over her paperwork, she pointed out I spelled PRAECIPE wrong...ok I didn't, that is how its spelled. I explained there are some legal terms derived from latin that are still used frequently in pleadings. She came in at 3:45 and didn't leave til 5:30...there was also some figures that needed reworked. She wanted to nick pick everything and at one point I had to take a call and she was yelling my name, til she realized I was on the phone. Its what I mean when I talk about people thinking they are the only clients that I have. OMG! By the time it was all over my boss was irritated with her. I just wish I could show up at her work and make her stay after EVERY fucking time I show up...LOL I can't she works at a dr. office...damn, or I would seriously think about it. We've had no air conditioning at our office the last 2 days. Finally at the end of the day today they got it up and running. It was making me irritable, but the clients sure don't help!Another client was suppose to show up to sign guardianship papers for his mom. He never showed, but on the way home I swear I seen him being arrested by police and cocaine or crack sitting on the hood of the car. I can't be sure though. Hes got a history like that...possession. Another client, who isn't even in my bottom half of the alphabet (that is how me and Judy split the clients up) but she can't tolerate him and I think the feeling is mutual. LOL Today he blew up on me because the broker or lender (can't remember which at the moment) requested more information. This guy is weird...boy if I had a dollar for everytime I said that. :) Anyways like pervert weird and he is trying to get the house out of his mother's estate..the brother and sister were giving him a hard time, but he blames everyone when its his people that are requesting this information which is holding up the closing of the house. You have to understand this pudgy, balding, short, short man...he wants it all and free little or nothing. Estates bring out the worst in people..its too sad. My dad died and never did I worry about what anyone was getting from him, of course being in the legal field I knew it would all typically go to my mom who is still alive....but even then I was so grief sticken I would have gave anything just to have him back, not to have anything he owned. People are just too greedy!
posted by TRiSha ;0 @ 7:02 PM 0 comments
Friday, April 28, 2006
PAYROLLLLLLLLLLLLL
Legal Eagle BitchOk today is Friday, payday. Usually the best day of all...unless you get screwed. Judy does payroll and I missed a day which I had already made up my 1/2 my hours. So she asked me on Wednesday how many hours I had, which I told her and proceeded to tell her that I was making up the other 4 on Thursday. She made mine w/o the other 4 hrs because she wanted paid early, I guess. BS, specially when the boss is ok with making up hrs.! I was pissed, and she tried to redeem herself by telling me she would void it and make another if I made up the hrs. By that time the boss had signed them, and so I said screw it and deposited it. I don't know what hrs hers was for...she missed 1/2 days 3 out of 5 days and the whole day the other 2. She was trying to tell me she came in early and shit, but I know there is no way she made up that many hrs....so petty huh? I don't really care if she is ripping the boss off, not my prob. But mine...dif story!Another client wanted came in about his friend who we have a guardianship on...he looked and acted as if he'd been in vietnam. Cigar hanging out of his mouth...bad mouthing and then being nice.. he was wacked. In fact my boss sent her husband in to hang out until he left. Enough bitching, I am in a bad enough mood to find out I am being subpoena in a post mod custody issue dealing with my step-son and his ex. They always drag me in the middle of things. I am going to avoid being served. LOL
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Stalker Divorce Client
Legal Eagle BitchOk I have the papers prepared and my boss took them home to look them over...but shes been in Court the last few days and has a full day hearing today....major post divorce issues in this one, so it will probably take all day. Anyways...my stalker divorce client came in midday (thats a mircle in itself...she so likes to come in at 5 ICK!) and told me things are getting worse in the home, they are still living in the same house. How?, I don't know! The husband got mad at her and kicked a door. I don't mean to sound insensative, but she started bawling and freaking out. OMG, move out for now. I wanted to say...have you ever been choked out by him??? Ok, then come talk to me. I am not proud to admit it but I was married to an abuser who threatened my life and choked me out one time til I passed out. I thought it was over for me...it wasn't, and I was out of there. I had to go sign up for MET housing and the works but I made it out alive and am flourishing now that I am out of the situation. I guess I have become somewhat tougher since and won't put up with NOTHING! There is always a way out, even if its temporary. No one wants to put themselves out there, but they want to cry to you. Geeeeesshhhhh! I guess I am a bitch in the true fashion. I know what it truely is I am not an emotional person as it is and have had to survive on my own many times...you do what you have to do. I tend to get along better with men (non-emotional) and can't handle crying and whinning. Sue me. LOL
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Friday, April 21, 2006
Missed Appts and Emergencies
Legal Eagle BitchRED ALERT...if you miss an appointment or even 2, no call, no show than don't show up at the office early in the AM because you have an emergency ... yea, people do it and expect you to spend all day on their crap when you have a ton of other stuff that is on your desk...should I say MY desk. I arrived at work today and there sat the 9am appt and she was already in with the "emergency people", grandparents who needed a motion for custody filed exparte for 2 grandchildren....which includes alot of other documents, close to 20 pgs all together. And they called after and before signing numerous times...too many to count! It was so exhausting! NOTE: Obviously Judy was not in today. She did show up this afternoon because of personal reasons, she sucks. NOTE: My boss told me to leave early, that was at 3:30p but I had a few things to finish...should have locked the door! SHIT. I had the few things I wanted to finish done and then my STALKER divorce client walked in whinning about her paperwork and many other things...Wah, no sympathy from me...been there, done that-twice. Not a big deal. I guess I have my emotions in check and know when the shit is too deep and I need to get out. I ended up leaving at 4:30p, wow a 1/2 hr early and I took no lunch....boy I am turning to whinning now...ICK!
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Tuesday, April 18, 2006
Part Timer
Legal Eagle BitchOk I have taken all the fucking Judy I can handle. I guess I am just seeing someone who works hard and gets nothing but told I am working hard....hmmmm, that don't pay the bills. And then theres Judy who shows up 1/2 the time, yacks and bitches the other 1/2 and gets paid. She is off half days this week because she has no one to watch her kids. Ok I have had my kids in daycare and sitters, whatever I had to do because me making money has been very important to me and my family. (Don't get me wrong I wouldn't put my kids in danger or leave them with strangers) Judy knew about this problem a week ahead of time and did nothing to try to find someone...so that leaves me in the afternoons...well mid morning to afternoon to late afternoon doing both jobs and getting paid for one. BS. Do I sound desperate for my own pity party? LOL Its not the old shes getting more than me...its that I am deticated and she is....a pain in my ass. It will come back around though...I will make sure of it. hahahaha
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2 days out...peace at last!
Legal Eagle BitchOk Judy is off for two days...YAHOO! Maybe I will actually get some work done and she won't be there to tell me her many stories. I just know shes been screwing our boss on her hrs because there is no way in hell that shes been able to make so much time up. I hope our boss is getting fed up, but I if so I can't see it! Today Judy sat down at lunch and told our boss a story about her being rude to another assistant in opposing counsel's office because she told them that the Court couldn't call back and to get the assistant on the phone because they were trying to schedule a hearing. THis is true, a deputy clerk was on the line in conference while she was doing this. And just to clarify, the assistant in the opposing counsel's office is handicapped (got the sticker and all) from a car accident. (I had went to school with this other assistant so I know, and dealing with her is a pain because on your end all the filings have to be taken care of, but she is sweet and their office is only a block from the Courthouse so its hardly farther than going there. By the way Judy rarely runs anywhere, she always complains its too hot or she wants to be right up the bosses ass...LOL I have to say I love being a paralegal and would still consider law school if I could get my loans paid off first...that'll be the day. Anyways I still take my job just as serious because its my boss who is going to pay for my mistakes. I worry about missing deadlines, I worry about getting things done right the first time, I do my best and somedays I know I can do better and am always trying to improve. Shes just there because right now she can do what she wants but little does she know that peaking around the corner waiting to pounce is ME!
posted by TRiSha ;0 @ 7:47 PM 0 comments
Saturday, May 27, 2006
Helpless
Legal Eagle BitchCould it get more pathetic? My job that is... Friday Judy had a case in which a brief need filed and it was due on Friday (my boss is a procrastinator, but I don't blame her for that because shes got hundreds of open cases....and is very active in the community on boards and other things) Who do I blame? What a loaded fucking question! JUDY See the case in which the brief was due was in another town about 40 mins away. Judy didn't think she could find it...OMG! Hello. I looked up the directions for her because she couldn't do it. From our office it was easy as driving the whole way on a St. Rt. and making one turn. I volunteered (guess that makes it hard to complain about it) but I didn't do it for her but for my boss. I want her to succeed and it takes us (well really ME) to do that too. Plus it got me out of the office for about 3 hrs....took my lunch while I was out too, plus picked up some docs from the Ct. I needed for a hearing on a case of mine scheduled for Tuesday. I am sick of picking up her slack though. My husband keeps telling me to talk to my boss, but its difficult in a small office-theres only us 3... Judy was hired in about 6 mons or so before me and does alot of the extra crap that a secretary should and a paralegal shouldn't....payroll (though I could because I worked for a major industrial manufacturer doing payroll and all the child support deductions. I just don't think at this point I should have to do that and all the legal research and writing that Judy can't do.Oh and that reminds me...the other day Judy asked me if she would be considered a legal assistant....I laughed (loudly) and then added no, I went to school for 4 years (she has no college). Balls!http://www.imgdump.net/images2/8a73d0d8.gif
posted by TRiSha ;0 @ 7:10 AM 0 comments
Wednesday, May 17, 2006
While Judy's Away the Bitch will PLAY!
Legal Eagle BitchWhats new every other day Judy needs to get out of work early or whatever....but when I strained my back over the weekend she was a BITCH because I missed one day. She bitched to me all day about it, and I wanted to Shoot myself...literally!I can't even complain when she is gone, and I really like it that way. What I don't like is that she gets pissy with me about missing work and then does it all the time. I don't get that way with her, because that way I don't have to listen to her tell everyone who walks through the FUCKING door her BORING life stories. Poor people. Plus I seem to get soooo much more done when she is not blabbing and in my way. God its so wrong, most days I would like to kick her ass and shoot myself. But she can be nice too...bi-polar I would guess, Def MENTAL!I gotta find another job! I seriously love my boss....she's a very smart attorney and appreciates my knowledge and experience in the legal field. Shes taught me alot and theres things to learn each day with as much as law changes. I hate to leave and I am so comfortable where I am at....but maybe that means I need to go. I like change and meeting new people, but every office is different too, so it would be strange at first. I have interviewed with other attys that can't believe I have so much freedom....I know what to do and do it without asking every little thing of my boss. I don't need much supervision and the little I do need its because I am by law under her supervision and can't just practice unauthorized law, though I am sure I could do it easily. I soooo need to pay off my student loans and go back to law school. You only live once, so my motto is GO FOR IT, take life all the way!
posted by TRiSha ;0 @ 7:20 PM 0 comments
Thursday, May 04, 2006
Just Shoot Me...please
Legal Eagle BitchThe Stalker Divorce client was in again yesterday...pretty much so were all the other psychos!She came into sign her divorce papers. Shes wondering when she will get served so she can get the dog out of the house. While she was looking over her paperwork, she pointed out I spelled PRAECIPE wrong...ok I didn't, that is how its spelled. I explained there are some legal terms derived from latin that are still used frequently in pleadings. She came in at 3:45 and didn't leave til 5:30...there was also some figures that needed reworked. She wanted to nick pick everything and at one point I had to take a call and she was yelling my name, til she realized I was on the phone. Its what I mean when I talk about people thinking they are the only clients that I have. OMG! By the time it was all over my boss was irritated with her. I just wish I could show up at her work and make her stay after EVERY fucking time I show up...LOL I can't she works at a dr. office...damn, or I would seriously think about it. We've had no air conditioning at our office the last 2 days. Finally at the end of the day today they got it up and running. It was making me irritable, but the clients sure don't help!Another client was suppose to show up to sign guardianship papers for his mom. He never showed, but on the way home I swear I seen him being arrested by police and cocaine or crack sitting on the hood of the car. I can't be sure though. Hes got a history like that...possession. Another client, who isn't even in my bottom half of the alphabet (that is how me and Judy split the clients up) but she can't tolerate him and I think the feeling is mutual. LOL Today he blew up on me because the broker or lender (can't remember which at the moment) requested more information. This guy is weird...boy if I had a dollar for everytime I said that. :) Anyways like pervert weird and he is trying to get the house out of his mother's estate..the brother and sister were giving him a hard time, but he blames everyone when its his people that are requesting this information which is holding up the closing of the house. You have to understand this pudgy, balding, short, short man...he wants it all and free little or nothing. Estates bring out the worst in people..its too sad. My dad died and never did I worry about what anyone was getting from him, of course being in the legal field I knew it would all typically go to my mom who is still alive....but even then I was so grief sticken I would have gave anything just to have him back, not to have anything he owned. People are just too greedy!
posted by TRiSha ;0 @ 7:02 PM 0 comments
Friday, April 28, 2006
PAYROLLLLLLLLLLLLL
Legal Eagle BitchOk today is Friday, payday. Usually the best day of all...unless you get screwed. Judy does payroll and I missed a day which I had already made up my 1/2 my hours. So she asked me on Wednesday how many hours I had, which I told her and proceeded to tell her that I was making up the other 4 on Thursday. She made mine w/o the other 4 hrs because she wanted paid early, I guess. BS, specially when the boss is ok with making up hrs.! I was pissed, and she tried to redeem herself by telling me she would void it and make another if I made up the hrs. By that time the boss had signed them, and so I said screw it and deposited it. I don't know what hrs hers was for...she missed 1/2 days 3 out of 5 days and the whole day the other 2. She was trying to tell me she came in early and shit, but I know there is no way she made up that many hrs....so petty huh? I don't really care if she is ripping the boss off, not my prob. But mine...dif story!Another client wanted came in about his friend who we have a guardianship on...he looked and acted as if he'd been in vietnam. Cigar hanging out of his mouth...bad mouthing and then being nice.. he was wacked. In fact my boss sent her husband in to hang out until he left. Enough bitching, I am in a bad enough mood to find out I am being subpoena in a post mod custody issue dealing with my step-son and his ex. They always drag me in the middle of things. I am going to avoid being served. LOL
posted by TRiSha ;0 @ 4:20 PM 0 comments
Stalker Divorce Client
Legal Eagle BitchOk I have the papers prepared and my boss took them home to look them over...but shes been in Court the last few days and has a full day hearing today....major post divorce issues in this one, so it will probably take all day. Anyways...my stalker divorce client came in midday (thats a mircle in itself...she so likes to come in at 5 ICK!) and told me things are getting worse in the home, they are still living in the same house. How?, I don't know! The husband got mad at her and kicked a door. I don't mean to sound insensative, but she started bawling and freaking out. OMG, move out for now. I wanted to say...have you ever been choked out by him??? Ok, then come talk to me. I am not proud to admit it but I was married to an abuser who threatened my life and choked me out one time til I passed out. I thought it was over for me...it wasn't, and I was out of there. I had to go sign up for MET housing and the works but I made it out alive and am flourishing now that I am out of the situation. I guess I have become somewhat tougher since and won't put up with NOTHING! There is always a way out, even if its temporary. No one wants to put themselves out there, but they want to cry to you. Geeeeesshhhhh! I guess I am a bitch in the true fashion. I know what it truely is I am not an emotional person as it is and have had to survive on my own many times...you do what you have to do. I tend to get along better with men (non-emotional) and can't handle crying and whinning. Sue me. LOL
posted by TRiSha ;0 @ 5:04 AM 0 comments
Friday, April 21, 2006
Missed Appts and Emergencies
Legal Eagle BitchRED ALERT...if you miss an appointment or even 2, no call, no show than don't show up at the office early in the AM because you have an emergency ... yea, people do it and expect you to spend all day on their crap when you have a ton of other stuff that is on your desk...should I say MY desk. I arrived at work today and there sat the 9am appt and she was already in with the "emergency people", grandparents who needed a motion for custody filed exparte for 2 grandchildren....which includes alot of other documents, close to 20 pgs all together. And they called after and before signing numerous times...too many to count! It was so exhausting! NOTE: Obviously Judy was not in today. She did show up this afternoon because of personal reasons, she sucks. NOTE: My boss told me to leave early, that was at 3:30p but I had a few things to finish...should have locked the door! SHIT. I had the few things I wanted to finish done and then my STALKER divorce client walked in whinning about her paperwork and many other things...Wah, no sympathy from me...been there, done that-twice. Not a big deal. I guess I have my emotions in check and know when the shit is too deep and I need to get out. I ended up leaving at 4:30p, wow a 1/2 hr early and I took no lunch....boy I am turning to whinning now...ICK!
posted by TRiSha ;0 @ 2:33 PM 0 comments
Tuesday, April 18, 2006
Part Timer
Legal Eagle BitchOk I have taken all the fucking Judy I can handle. I guess I am just seeing someone who works hard and gets nothing but told I am working hard....hmmmm, that don't pay the bills. And then theres Judy who shows up 1/2 the time, yacks and bitches the other 1/2 and gets paid. She is off half days this week because she has no one to watch her kids. Ok I have had my kids in daycare and sitters, whatever I had to do because me making money has been very important to me and my family. (Don't get me wrong I wouldn't put my kids in danger or leave them with strangers) Judy knew about this problem a week ahead of time and did nothing to try to find someone...so that leaves me in the afternoons...well mid morning to afternoon to late afternoon doing both jobs and getting paid for one. BS. Do I sound desperate for my own pity party? LOL Its not the old shes getting more than me...its that I am deticated and she is....a pain in my ass. It will come back around though...I will make sure of it. hahahaha
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Old Posts....
Ok I lost my login, password and can't get them retrived so I will post the old and begin new...theres always a bitch for me to blog about....
2 days out...peace at last!
Legal Eagle BitchOk Judy is off for two days...YAHOO! Maybe I will actually get some work done and she won't be there to tell me her many stories. I just know shes been screwing our boss on her hrs because there is no way in hell that shes been able to make so much time up. I hope our boss is getting fed up, but I if so I can't see it! Today Judy sat down at lunch and told our boss a story about her being rude to another assistant in opposing counsel's office because she told them that the Court couldn't call back and to get the assistant on the phone because they were trying to schedule a hearing. THis is true, a deputy clerk was on the line in conference while she was doing this. And just to clarify, the assistant in the opposing counsel's office is handicapped (got the sticker and all) from a car accident. (I had went to school with this other assistant so I know, and dealing with her is a pain because on your end all the filings have to be taken care of, but she is sweet and their office is only a block from the Courthouse so its hardly farther than going there. By the way Judy rarely runs anywhere, she always complains its too hot or she wants to be right up the bosses ass...LOL I have to say I love being a paralegal and would still consider law school if I could get my loans paid off first...that'll be the day. Anyways I still take my job just as serious because its my boss who is going to pay for my mistakes. I worry about missing deadlines, I worry about getting things done right the first time, I do my best and somedays I know I can do better and am always trying to improve. Shes just there because right now she can do what she wants but little does she know that peaking around the corner waiting to pounce is ME!
posted by TRiSha ;0 @ 7:47 PM 0 comments
Saturday, May 27, 2006
Helpless
Legal Eagle BitchCould it get more pathetic? My job that is... Friday Judy had a case in which a brief need filed and it was due on Friday (my boss is a procrastinator, but I don't blame her for that because shes got hundreds of open cases....and is very active in the community on boards and other things) Who do I blame? What a loaded fucking question! JUDY See the case in which the brief was due was in another town about 40 mins away. Judy didn't think she could find it...OMG! Hello. I looked up the directions for her because she couldn't do it. From our office it was easy as driving the whole way on a St. Rt. and making one turn. I volunteered (guess that makes it hard to complain about it) but I didn't do it for her but for my boss. I want her to succeed and it takes us (well really ME) to do that too. Plus it got me out of the office for about 3 hrs....took my lunch while I was out too, plus picked up some docs from the Ct. I needed for a hearing on a case of mine scheduled for Tuesday. I am sick of picking up her slack though. My husband keeps telling me to talk to my boss, but its difficult in a small office-theres only us 3... Judy was hired in about 6 mons or so before me and does alot of the extra crap that a secretary should and a paralegal shouldn't....payroll (though I could because I worked for a major industrial manufacturer doing payroll and all the child support deductions. I just don't think at this point I should have to do that and all the legal research and writing that Judy can't do.Oh and that reminds me...the other day Judy asked me if she would be considered a legal assistant....I laughed (loudly) and then added no, I went to school for 4 years (she has no college). Balls!http://www.imgdump.net/images2/8a73d0d8.gif
posted by TRiSha ;0 @ 7:10 AM 0 comments
Wednesday, May 17, 2006
While Judy's Away the Bitch will PLAY!
Legal Eagle BitchWhats new every other day Judy needs to get out of work early or whatever....but when I strained my back over the weekend she was a BITCH because I missed one day. She bitched to me all day about it, and I wanted to Shoot myself...literally!I can't even complain when she is gone, and I really like it that way. What I don't like is that she gets pissy with me about missing work and then does it all the time. I don't get that way with her, because that way I don't have to listen to her tell everyone who walks through the FUCKING door her BORING life stories. Poor people. Plus I seem to get soooo much more done when she is not blabbing and in my way. God its so wrong, most days I would like to kick her ass and shoot myself. But she can be nice too...bi-polar I would guess, Def MENTAL!I gotta find another job! I seriously love my boss....she's a very smart attorney and appreciates my knowledge and experience in the legal field. Shes taught me alot and theres things to learn each day with as much as law changes. I hate to leave and I am so comfortable where I am at....but maybe that means I need to go. I like change and meeting new people, but every office is different too, so it would be strange at first. I have interviewed with other attys that can't believe I have so much freedom....I know what to do and do it without asking every little thing of my boss. I don't need much supervision and the little I do need its because I am by law under her supervision and can't just practice unauthorized law, though I am sure I could do it easily. I soooo need to pay off my student loans and go back to law school. You only live once, so my motto is GO FOR IT, take life all the way!
posted by TRiSha ;0 @ 7:20 PM 0 comments
Thursday, May 04, 2006
Just Shoot Me...please
Legal Eagle BitchThe Stalker Divorce client was in again yesterday...pretty much so were all the other psychos!She came into sign her divorce papers. Shes wondering when she will get served so she can get the dog out of the house. While she was looking over her paperwork, she pointed out I spelled PRAECIPE wrong...ok I didn't, that is how its spelled. I explained there are some legal terms derived from latin that are still used frequently in pleadings. She came in at 3:45 and didn't leave til 5:30...there was also some figures that needed reworked. She wanted to nick pick everything and at one point I had to take a call and she was yelling my name, til she realized I was on the phone. Its what I mean when I talk about people thinking they are the only clients that I have. OMG! By the time it was all over my boss was irritated with her. I just wish I could show up at her work and make her stay after EVERY fucking time I show up...LOL I can't she works at a dr. office...damn, or I would seriously think about it. We've had no air conditioning at our office the last 2 days. Finally at the end of the day today they got it up and running. It was making me irritable, but the clients sure don't help!Another client was suppose to show up to sign guardianship papers for his mom. He never showed, but on the way home I swear I seen him being arrested by police and cocaine or crack sitting on the hood of the car. I can't be sure though. Hes got a history like that...possession. Another client, who isn't even in my bottom half of the alphabet (that is how me and Judy split the clients up) but she can't tolerate him and I think the feeling is mutual. LOL Today he blew up on me because the broker or lender (can't remember which at the moment) requested more information. This guy is weird...boy if I had a dollar for everytime I said that. :) Anyways like pervert weird and he is trying to get the house out of his mother's estate..the brother and sister were giving him a hard time, but he blames everyone when its his people that are requesting this information which is holding up the closing of the house. You have to understand this pudgy, balding, short, short man...he wants it all and free little or nothing. Estates bring out the worst in people..its too sad. My dad died and never did I worry about what anyone was getting from him, of course being in the legal field I knew it would all typically go to my mom who is still alive....but even then I was so grief sticken I would have gave anything just to have him back, not to have anything he owned. People are just too greedy!
posted by TRiSha ;0 @ 7:02 PM 0 comments
Friday, April 28, 2006
PAYROLLLLLLLLLLLLL
Legal Eagle BitchOk today is Friday, payday. Usually the best day of all...unless you get screwed. Judy does payroll and I missed a day which I had already made up my 1/2 my hours. So she asked me on Wednesday how many hours I had, which I told her and proceeded to tell her that I was making up the other 4 on Thursday. She made mine w/o the other 4 hrs because she wanted paid early, I guess. BS, specially when the boss is ok with making up hrs.! I was pissed, and she tried to redeem herself by telling me she would void it and make another if I made up the hrs. By that time the boss had signed them, and so I said screw it and deposited it. I don't know what hrs hers was for...she missed 1/2 days 3 out of 5 days and the whole day the other 2. She was trying to tell me she came in early and shit, but I know there is no way she made up that many hrs....so petty huh? I don't really care if she is ripping the boss off, not my prob. But mine...dif story!Another client wanted came in about his friend who we have a guardianship on...he looked and acted as if he'd been in vietnam. Cigar hanging out of his mouth...bad mouthing and then being nice.. he was wacked. In fact my boss sent her husband in to hang out until he left. Enough bitching, I am in a bad enough mood to find out I am being subpoena in a post mod custody issue dealing with my step-son and his ex. They always drag me in the middle of things. I am going to avoid being served. LOL
posted by TRiSha ;0 @ 4:20 PM 0 comments
Stalker Divorce Client
Legal Eagle BitchOk I have the papers prepared and my boss took them home to look them over...but shes been in Court the last few days and has a full day hearing today....major post divorce issues in this one, so it will probably take all day. Anyways...my stalker divorce client came in midday (thats a mircle in itself...she so likes to come in at 5 ICK!) and told me things are getting worse in the home, they are still living in the same house. How?, I don't know! The husband got mad at her and kicked a door. I don't mean to sound insensative, but she started bawling and freaking out. OMG, move out for now. I wanted to say...have you ever been choked out by him??? Ok, then come talk to me. I am not proud to admit it but I was married to an abuser who threatened my life and choked me out one time til I passed out. I thought it was over for me...it wasn't, and I was out of there. I had to go sign up for MET housing and the works but I made it out alive and am flourishing now that I am out of the situation. I guess I have become somewhat tougher since and won't put up with NOTHING! There is always a way out, even if its temporary. No one wants to put themselves out there, but they want to cry to you. Geeeeesshhhhh! I guess I am a bitch in the true fashion. I know what it truely is I am not an emotional person as it is and have had to survive on my own many times...you do what you have to do. I tend to get along better with men (non-emotional) and can't handle crying and whinning. Sue me. LOL
posted by TRiSha ;0 @ 5:04 AM 0 comments
Friday, April 21, 2006
Missed Appts and Emergencies
Legal Eagle BitchRED ALERT...if you miss an appointment or even 2, no call, no show than don't show up at the office early in the AM because you have an emergency ... yea, people do it and expect you to spend all day on their crap when you have a ton of other stuff that is on your desk...should I say MY desk. I arrived at work today and there sat the 9am appt and she was already in with the "emergency people", grandparents who needed a motion for custody filed exparte for 2 grandchildren....which includes alot of other documents, close to 20 pgs all together. And they called after and before signing numerous times...too many to count! It was so exhausting! NOTE: Obviously Judy was not in today. She did show up this afternoon because of personal reasons, she sucks. NOTE: My boss told me to leave early, that was at 3:30p but I had a few things to finish...should have locked the door! SHIT. I had the few things I wanted to finish done and then my STALKER divorce client walked in whinning about her paperwork and many other things...Wah, no sympathy from me...been there, done that-twice. Not a big deal. I guess I have my emotions in check and know when the shit is too deep and I need to get out. I ended up leaving at 4:30p, wow a 1/2 hr early and I took no lunch....boy I am turning to whinning now...ICK!
posted by TRiSha ;0 @ 2:33 PM 0 comments
Tuesday, April 18, 2006
Part Timer
Legal Eagle BitchOk I have taken all the fucking Judy I can handle. I guess I am just seeing someone who works hard and gets nothing but told I am working hard....hmmmm, that don't pay the bills. And then theres Judy who shows up 1/2 the time, yacks and bitches the other 1/2 and gets paid. She is off half days this week because she has no one to watch her kids. Ok I have had my kids in daycare and sitters, whatever I had to do because me making money has been very important to me and my family. (Don't get me wrong I wouldn't put my kids in danger or leave them with strangers) Judy knew about this problem a week ahead of time and did nothing to try to find someone...so that leaves me in the afternoons...well mid morning to afternoon to late afternoon doing both jobs and getting paid for one. BS. Do I sound desperate for my own pity party? LOL Its not the old shes getting more than me...its that I am deticated and she is....a pain in my ass. It will come back around though...I will make sure of it. hahahaha
posted by TRiSha ;0 @ 8:12 PM 0 comments
2 days out...peace at last!
Legal Eagle BitchOk Judy is off for two days...YAHOO! Maybe I will actually get some work done and she won't be there to tell me her many stories. I just know shes been screwing our boss on her hrs because there is no way in hell that shes been able to make so much time up. I hope our boss is getting fed up, but I if so I can't see it! Today Judy sat down at lunch and told our boss a story about her being rude to another assistant in opposing counsel's office because she told them that the Court couldn't call back and to get the assistant on the phone because they were trying to schedule a hearing. THis is true, a deputy clerk was on the line in conference while she was doing this. And just to clarify, the assistant in the opposing counsel's office is handicapped (got the sticker and all) from a car accident. (I had went to school with this other assistant so I know, and dealing with her is a pain because on your end all the filings have to be taken care of, but she is sweet and their office is only a block from the Courthouse so its hardly farther than going there. By the way Judy rarely runs anywhere, she always complains its too hot or she wants to be right up the bosses ass...LOL I have to say I love being a paralegal and would still consider law school if I could get my loans paid off first...that'll be the day. Anyways I still take my job just as serious because its my boss who is going to pay for my mistakes. I worry about missing deadlines, I worry about getting things done right the first time, I do my best and somedays I know I can do better and am always trying to improve. Shes just there because right now she can do what she wants but little does she know that peaking around the corner waiting to pounce is ME!
posted by TRiSha ;0 @ 7:47 PM 0 comments
Saturday, May 27, 2006
Helpless
Legal Eagle BitchCould it get more pathetic? My job that is... Friday Judy had a case in which a brief need filed and it was due on Friday (my boss is a procrastinator, but I don't blame her for that because shes got hundreds of open cases....and is very active in the community on boards and other things) Who do I blame? What a loaded fucking question! JUDY See the case in which the brief was due was in another town about 40 mins away. Judy didn't think she could find it...OMG! Hello. I looked up the directions for her because she couldn't do it. From our office it was easy as driving the whole way on a St. Rt. and making one turn. I volunteered (guess that makes it hard to complain about it) but I didn't do it for her but for my boss. I want her to succeed and it takes us (well really ME) to do that too. Plus it got me out of the office for about 3 hrs....took my lunch while I was out too, plus picked up some docs from the Ct. I needed for a hearing on a case of mine scheduled for Tuesday. I am sick of picking up her slack though. My husband keeps telling me to talk to my boss, but its difficult in a small office-theres only us 3... Judy was hired in about 6 mons or so before me and does alot of the extra crap that a secretary should and a paralegal shouldn't....payroll (though I could because I worked for a major industrial manufacturer doing payroll and all the child support deductions. I just don't think at this point I should have to do that and all the legal research and writing that Judy can't do.Oh and that reminds me...the other day Judy asked me if she would be considered a legal assistant....I laughed (loudly) and then added no, I went to school for 4 years (she has no college). Balls!http://www.imgdump.net/images2/8a73d0d8.gif
posted by TRiSha ;0 @ 7:10 AM 0 comments
Wednesday, May 17, 2006
While Judy's Away the Bitch will PLAY!
Legal Eagle BitchWhats new every other day Judy needs to get out of work early or whatever....but when I strained my back over the weekend she was a BITCH because I missed one day. She bitched to me all day about it, and I wanted to Shoot myself...literally!I can't even complain when she is gone, and I really like it that way. What I don't like is that she gets pissy with me about missing work and then does it all the time. I don't get that way with her, because that way I don't have to listen to her tell everyone who walks through the FUCKING door her BORING life stories. Poor people. Plus I seem to get soooo much more done when she is not blabbing and in my way. God its so wrong, most days I would like to kick her ass and shoot myself. But she can be nice too...bi-polar I would guess, Def MENTAL!I gotta find another job! I seriously love my boss....she's a very smart attorney and appreciates my knowledge and experience in the legal field. Shes taught me alot and theres things to learn each day with as much as law changes. I hate to leave and I am so comfortable where I am at....but maybe that means I need to go. I like change and meeting new people, but every office is different too, so it would be strange at first. I have interviewed with other attys that can't believe I have so much freedom....I know what to do and do it without asking every little thing of my boss. I don't need much supervision and the little I do need its because I am by law under her supervision and can't just practice unauthorized law, though I am sure I could do it easily. I soooo need to pay off my student loans and go back to law school. You only live once, so my motto is GO FOR IT, take life all the way!
posted by TRiSha ;0 @ 7:20 PM 0 comments
Thursday, May 04, 2006
Just Shoot Me...please
Legal Eagle BitchThe Stalker Divorce client was in again yesterday...pretty much so were all the other psychos!She came into sign her divorce papers. Shes wondering when she will get served so she can get the dog out of the house. While she was looking over her paperwork, she pointed out I spelled PRAECIPE wrong...ok I didn't, that is how its spelled. I explained there are some legal terms derived from latin that are still used frequently in pleadings. She came in at 3:45 and didn't leave til 5:30...there was also some figures that needed reworked. She wanted to nick pick everything and at one point I had to take a call and she was yelling my name, til she realized I was on the phone. Its what I mean when I talk about people thinking they are the only clients that I have. OMG! By the time it was all over my boss was irritated with her. I just wish I could show up at her work and make her stay after EVERY fucking time I show up...LOL I can't she works at a dr. office...damn, or I would seriously think about it. We've had no air conditioning at our office the last 2 days. Finally at the end of the day today they got it up and running. It was making me irritable, but the clients sure don't help!Another client was suppose to show up to sign guardianship papers for his mom. He never showed, but on the way home I swear I seen him being arrested by police and cocaine or crack sitting on the hood of the car. I can't be sure though. Hes got a history like that...possession. Another client, who isn't even in my bottom half of the alphabet (that is how me and Judy split the clients up) but she can't tolerate him and I think the feeling is mutual. LOL Today he blew up on me because the broker or lender (can't remember which at the moment) requested more information. This guy is weird...boy if I had a dollar for everytime I said that. :) Anyways like pervert weird and he is trying to get the house out of his mother's estate..the brother and sister were giving him a hard time, but he blames everyone when its his people that are requesting this information which is holding up the closing of the house. You have to understand this pudgy, balding, short, short man...he wants it all and free little or nothing. Estates bring out the worst in people..its too sad. My dad died and never did I worry about what anyone was getting from him, of course being in the legal field I knew it would all typically go to my mom who is still alive....but even then I was so grief sticken I would have gave anything just to have him back, not to have anything he owned. People are just too greedy!
posted by TRiSha ;0 @ 7:02 PM 0 comments
Friday, April 28, 2006
PAYROLLLLLLLLLLLLL
Legal Eagle BitchOk today is Friday, payday. Usually the best day of all...unless you get screwed. Judy does payroll and I missed a day which I had already made up my 1/2 my hours. So she asked me on Wednesday how many hours I had, which I told her and proceeded to tell her that I was making up the other 4 on Thursday. She made mine w/o the other 4 hrs because she wanted paid early, I guess. BS, specially when the boss is ok with making up hrs.! I was pissed, and she tried to redeem herself by telling me she would void it and make another if I made up the hrs. By that time the boss had signed them, and so I said screw it and deposited it. I don't know what hrs hers was for...she missed 1/2 days 3 out of 5 days and the whole day the other 2. She was trying to tell me she came in early and shit, but I know there is no way she made up that many hrs....so petty huh? I don't really care if she is ripping the boss off, not my prob. But mine...dif story!Another client wanted came in about his friend who we have a guardianship on...he looked and acted as if he'd been in vietnam. Cigar hanging out of his mouth...bad mouthing and then being nice.. he was wacked. In fact my boss sent her husband in to hang out until he left. Enough bitching, I am in a bad enough mood to find out I am being subpoena in a post mod custody issue dealing with my step-son and his ex. They always drag me in the middle of things. I am going to avoid being served. LOL
posted by TRiSha ;0 @ 4:20 PM 0 comments
Stalker Divorce Client
Legal Eagle BitchOk I have the papers prepared and my boss took them home to look them over...but shes been in Court the last few days and has a full day hearing today....major post divorce issues in this one, so it will probably take all day. Anyways...my stalker divorce client came in midday (thats a mircle in itself...she so likes to come in at 5 ICK!) and told me things are getting worse in the home, they are still living in the same house. How?, I don't know! The husband got mad at her and kicked a door. I don't mean to sound insensative, but she started bawling and freaking out. OMG, move out for now. I wanted to say...have you ever been choked out by him??? Ok, then come talk to me. I am not proud to admit it but I was married to an abuser who threatened my life and choked me out one time til I passed out. I thought it was over for me...it wasn't, and I was out of there. I had to go sign up for MET housing and the works but I made it out alive and am flourishing now that I am out of the situation. I guess I have become somewhat tougher since and won't put up with NOTHING! There is always a way out, even if its temporary. No one wants to put themselves out there, but they want to cry to you. Geeeeesshhhhh! I guess I am a bitch in the true fashion. I know what it truely is I am not an emotional person as it is and have had to survive on my own many times...you do what you have to do. I tend to get along better with men (non-emotional) and can't handle crying and whinning. Sue me. LOL
posted by TRiSha ;0 @ 5:04 AM 0 comments
Friday, April 21, 2006
Missed Appts and Emergencies
Legal Eagle BitchRED ALERT...if you miss an appointment or even 2, no call, no show than don't show up at the office early in the AM because you have an emergency ... yea, people do it and expect you to spend all day on their crap when you have a ton of other stuff that is on your desk...should I say MY desk. I arrived at work today and there sat the 9am appt and she was already in with the "emergency people", grandparents who needed a motion for custody filed exparte for 2 grandchildren....which includes alot of other documents, close to 20 pgs all together. And they called after and before signing numerous times...too many to count! It was so exhausting! NOTE: Obviously Judy was not in today. She did show up this afternoon because of personal reasons, she sucks. NOTE: My boss told me to leave early, that was at 3:30p but I had a few things to finish...should have locked the door! SHIT. I had the few things I wanted to finish done and then my STALKER divorce client walked in whinning about her paperwork and many other things...Wah, no sympathy from me...been there, done that-twice. Not a big deal. I guess I have my emotions in check and know when the shit is too deep and I need to get out. I ended up leaving at 4:30p, wow a 1/2 hr early and I took no lunch....boy I am turning to whinning now...ICK!
posted by TRiSha ;0 @ 2:33 PM 0 comments
Tuesday, April 18, 2006
Part Timer
Legal Eagle BitchOk I have taken all the fucking Judy I can handle. I guess I am just seeing someone who works hard and gets nothing but told I am working hard....hmmmm, that don't pay the bills. And then theres Judy who shows up 1/2 the time, yacks and bitches the other 1/2 and gets paid. She is off half days this week because she has no one to watch her kids. Ok I have had my kids in daycare and sitters, whatever I had to do because me making money has been very important to me and my family. (Don't get me wrong I wouldn't put my kids in danger or leave them with strangers) Judy knew about this problem a week ahead of time and did nothing to try to find someone...so that leaves me in the afternoons...well mid morning to afternoon to late afternoon doing both jobs and getting paid for one. BS. Do I sound desperate for my own pity party? LOL Its not the old shes getting more than me...its that I am deticated and she is....a pain in my ass. It will come back around though...I will make sure of it. hahahaha
posted by TRiSha ;0 @ 8:12 PM 0 comments
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